People ask me why I'm so happy all the time.
hahahaha.
Then there are people who say that I'm a very lucky girl.
IF IM LUCKY I WOULD BE LYING IN A VILLA NOW AND NOT BE WORKING.
To put it simply, Happiness is very subjective.
Some people find happiness in having a soul mate.
Some, in eating. Some, in sports. Some, in being famous.
Some, in money. Some, in power. And the list goes on.
Some people even want to have a few or all of what's in the list.
Then it boils down to satisfaction.
It's good to want to improve and to desire a better life.
But not to the expense of not appreciating life.
In other words, I dislike it when people compare.
One thing I believe in Life is to appreciate what you have
and not constantly whine about what you cannot have.
I have a great relationship, I have a job,
I am going to start studying, I have great friends.
But I can also say I am still poor, I want to stay at home and slack, I want more!
But I don't.
And that makes a difference.
Stop comparing.
If you face a setback, DON'T EVER COMPARE.
Be it negatively or positively.
For example you have a lot of bills to pay off.
Negatively is that : " that person is lucky, he comes from a rich family, bills are nothing. "
Positively is that : " the people in a third world country lives in a worser condition. "
For the negative one, I guess you get it already.
For the positive one, reason why I dont believe in comparing with those worse off
is not cause I dont want to empathise with the poorer's plight.
But rather, you just gotta understand that the everybody has their own worries.
And to make yourself a stronger person, you just gotta pull yourself up by yourself.
Don't make yourself happy cause you are seemingly leading a better life.
Don't bash yourself up cause you are seemingly not leading a better life.
Know how to be satisfied.
Any obstacles that come are challenges to make one grow.
So grow with your own strength. Not with others flaws.
Aiya i think im going off topic. Anyway the point is.
Fight that self-piteous spirit of yours.
Happiness is a choice.
You may cry, you may fall.
But stand up.
It might take you a little while.
Just dont make it too long.
Cause no one will be there to sympathize with you for so long.